When ladies have lost their virginity, there’s high tendency that blame with follow suite; that’s if they will even tell you
Personally, I’m that type that believes that s*x should not in any way be attributed to mistakes since it’s your decision and choice, so why put the blame on something else, so as to bail yourself out
As a matter of fact, no guy with his right sense of reasoning blames the lost of his virginity on witches and wizard; but when it comes to the ladies, they put the blame on guys, even it was their choices which was done in a conscious state
However, asking for a lady’s virginity status is scum in my own opinion and I barely do that, but the few times I inquire, it was either they told me they were virgins, and those who were bold enough to say they ain’t virgin will most likely narrate tears dropping stories afterwards
Without wasting time, let’s discuss what they put the blame on
1. They blame it on Rape
I think should topic the list. Many ladies (if not all) will tell a story of how their uncle’s brother family cousin betrayed their trust and forced them into s*x
2. He deceived me
This should also come second. Many ladies who blame the lost of their virginity on their boyfriend who deceived them. You will hear something like ” I thought he actually loved me and I couldn’t but give my virginity to him. *madam park well jawe*
3. He promised to marry
In recent time, confused ladies use s*x as a tool to tie down their men, when in fact, these guy may still dump them. Some of them will blame the lost of their virginity on the illusion that he promised to marry them
4. He pressured me for it
Some of them will blame it on the pressure and suffocated them to the point that, couldn’t withstand the pressure and suffocation other than give him what he wanted
5. It was the work of the devil
Which kind devil be this one again ? Devil ke ? Why would one blame the devil for something done in a conscious state. A lady once told me that she blamed the devil to have belcoud her sense of reasoning to indulge in the act, when the devil in question never even knew her from Adam. *madam, abeg no involve devil 4 dis matter jawe*
6. Nobody is above mistake
In as much as it’s never a mistake losing your virginity as a guy, why should it be attributed to a mistake as a lady ?
7. He Drugged me
Haba he drugged you ke ? Some of them will claim that their boyfriends actually got them drunk to stupor, and unfortunately for them, when they woke up the next morning, they discovered that they had been defiled* Abeg dem force u make you sleep him house?*
8. He threatened me with a Break-up
Yes ! Many ladies will claim that their boyfriends threatened them with a break-up and that put them in no choice other than give him, since that’s what will make him happy. *Madam, abeg park well jhor*
9. He used indecency movie to lure me into doing it
This sounds like an exaggeration, but I call tell you that many use this as an excuse
10. Add yours my fellow naijaloaded users
Have fun
Written by: Tosyne2much
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